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There is no excuse for domestic abuse

The holidays are often a joyous time for many families around the world, but those at the Family Resource Centre say it can also be a hard time for those in abusive relationships.  It comes on the heels of police saying domestic violence in Cayman is up 44% over last year, and they’ve seen a spike of reports in recent weeks.

Family Resource Centre’s Charmaine Miller says the stresses of the holidays can lead to abusive behavior

“There is also an increase of consumption of alcohol, right, so that could be used as an excuse often times used by perpetrators to become or engage in violent behaviour while they are under the influence,” said Acting Programmes Coordinator of the Family Resource Center, Charmaine Miller.

As Christmas parties and socials are frequent in everyone’s events calendars, having a few drinks in the festive season becomes normal.

“However, alcohol is not an excuse for domestic abuse, right, it’s not a reason or a rational to why it should be taken place, unfortunately perpetrators do tend to use that as an excuse,” said Mrs Miller.

Consequences to the family are not forgotten.

She continued, “and that tends to be a reason as to why it makes it even harder for victims to leave abusive relationships, especially during this time they were in abusive relationships, they try to work extra hard to make sure their family stays in tact for this period of time.”

Mrs Miller believes that families are putting up a façade, hiding the emotional and physical violence as everyone is more social during the holiday season

“Knowing that in reality, they might be walking on egg shells and something might trigger a violent incident is not very healthy for children to be exposed to that.” said Mrs Miller.

For the family resource unit, they are getting calls asking for advise and direction.

“You know, a counselling perspective, wanting to access counselling from a legal perspective, knowing okay, if I’m in a violent relationship, what can I do to protect myself, legally as well as my children,” said Mrs Miller.

She advises those in abusive relationships to seek help or call the police in violent situations.
For more information on how to combat domestic abuse.

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Philipp Richter

Philipp Richter

Philipp Richter was born in Austria and moved to the Cayman Islands at the age of three. Throughout his life, he has always enjoyed documenting his surroundings with cameras. Studying television broadcasting and communications, he now can show the reality of life in Grand Cayman to the public.

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